from http://jamesmsama.wordpress.com/2013/11/13/10-ways-to-know-your-girl-is-a-keeper/

She doesn’t look for attention.
The women who don’t look for attention, are precisely the women we should be giving our attention to. Girls who are always looking for compliments or to be noticed, are often insecure and looking to overcompensate. What’s more – is that they’re likely more concerned about they’re own happiness, than they would be about yours.

attention seekers never really annoyed me. not a problem. i don't even notice it sometimes and ppl have to point it out to me

She can hold a conversation.

Believe me - I know how important physical attraction is to a relationship. But, believe me when I say that I also know that it’s not the most important thing, when you’re talking long term.

Not even remotely important to me. I can hold the conversation for the both of us =P

She is comfortable in any situation.

Let’s face it, when you’re dating somebody, you’re not alone with them all the time. It’s important to be able to live a full life with them by your side. This means family events, outings with friends, double dates, movie nights on the couch…Not to mention, the activities brought forth by similar interests – which you both should have!

Not a problem. I'll make the situation comfortable for her, for them, for anyone. Its my zanpaktou's ability, yknow.

She doesn’t start petty arguments.

In a healthy relationship, two people should be able to work out their differences via mature conversation and discussion. This does not mean bringing up nonsensical past issues or dwelling on small events that they’ve been emotionally harboring, waiting for the right time to unleash.

Id rather she say it out and discuss it with me rather than if it annoys her and yet she hides it. Doesn't matter how small the event it, i want to hear it. i've always been patient with these kinda stuff; its stupidity that annoys me.

She encourages you.

Even the best accomplishments in life seem to lose their luster when there is nobody to share them with. Your significant other should be one of, if not THE first, people you want to tell exciting news to.

Without a freaking doubt!

She’s your sunshine on a gloomy day (and every day).

Do you wake up every morning excited to talk to her? Or to kiss her on the forehead if you’re there together? Does seeing her name pop up on your phone during a rough day make you forget about all of your worries? Does being with her take you into your own world where nothing else matters?

Without a freaking doubt!

She puts in effort for you.

I am all about giving in relationships. Personally, I love to give and do things for my girlfriend. Seeing her happy makes me happy – and I believe if two people both feel that way in a relationship, it will be a success.

I dunno about this. Of course it'll be nice if she does things i like her to do becos.. well cos i like her to do them, but it'll be nicer if she does them cos she wants to. I'll wait for someone like that to appear in my life; i got plenty of time.

You can laugh together.

Seriously, how big is this one? Simple, but so important. Life can get you down. Work, bills, obligations – your relationship shouldn’t be something on that list. Your girlfriend should also be your best friend who you can do anything with, and have fun doing it.

Not a problem. about 1% of the population in the world doesn't laugh when they're with me (ie just smile politely at my jokes). I'm not going to say its 0%, cos it aint true. But 1% is pretty accurate. Yet another of my zanpaktou's powers, btw.

You can cry together.

Not everything is sunshine and rainbows. Times get tough, things get hard, and we all need a support system.

i have no clue about this one.

You have similar views for the future.

I know man, the future is way off. It’s a scary place, but it’s still there. If you’re in a solid, committed relationship, it’s important to understand where both of you see yourselves, and the relationship – going.

As long as she trusts me its fine. Cos my view won't go wrong =P