My Ideal Type

My ideal type is someone who won't get tired of me singing love songs to her for hours on end.

My ideal type is someone who doesn't get tired of me telling her what happened today, every single day.

My ideal type is someone who won't get tired of me telling her how perfect she is. Every single hour. Maybe even minutes during the honeymoon period.

someone who believes in my abilities, and know her future is safe in my hands.

someone who doesn't need to play sports that well, but is still content to sit at the sidelines and cheer me on.

someone who is all that because she wants to be, not because i want her to be.

someone who i can trust with my life

someone who is good to her very core

someone untainted by the harsh world we live in

a girl who will love me so much, she makes all my friends jealous. someone who loves me so much she throws away her inhibitions and showers me with affection. Why do i deserve it, because im so ready to do the same for her. Its not even hard, i dont even need to try because i really do want to do it. i want to treat her like a princess and make all her friends jealous of her.

But i want the same for myself. I want to be the prince, not the stable boy.

Someone who cant help but laugh at my retarded jokes. Someone who loves the sound of my voice. Someone who doesnt ever want to go home when we're out together. Someone who likes it when i pat her head. Someone who can just sit with me and do nothing for the entire day. Someone who is worried the day will end and we will have to go home soon, because that would be what i would be thinking also.

someone who will defend me no matter what in public. (den discuss the problems later in private). I would never hesitate to defend/support my other half, and i deserve someone who would do the same for me. Not doing so is a dealbreaker for me.

i like clingy and possessive girls. but this is very important to me: clingy is not = insecure/jealous/b*tchy.

someone who doesn't play games. i don't play games. my pickup line is hey i like you. not kidding. but most girls play games. they hide the truth and stuff. can tell one. den they get crazier and crazier as the relationship goes on. and if they are alrdy getting crazy when we are only dating, they will be 1000x more crazy when we get married or have kids.

But what i can say is, even someone like me who is so clear about my ideal type can be suckered by feelings. there is nothing as deceptive as infatuation.

Love is the ultimate con.

and i hate people referring to the friend zone as a bad thing. what's bad about caring about someone deeply and realizing that you are actually friends? True friendship is precious. Being friends with someone who you care about is beautiful.

additional tidbit: what i want my wife to be is different from what i want my daughter to be. Intelligence, efficiency, reliability and capability mixed in with loyalty, sweetness and above all cheekiness that shows her spark, joy and enthusiasm for life shared with her pops. that's what my daughter will be like.
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